{"id":94967,"date":"2026-10-16T17:21:45","date_gmt":"2026-10-16T06:21:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/?p=94967"},"modified":"2026-10-16T17:21:45","modified_gmt":"2026-10-16T06:21:45","slug":"best-massage-for-couples","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s the Best Type of Massage to Get as a Couple?"},"content":{"rendered":"[vc_row type=&#8221;in_container&#8221; full_screen_row_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; scene_position=&#8221;center&#8221; text_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; text_align=&#8221;left&#8221; overlay_strength=&#8221;0.3&#8243; shape_divider_position=&#8221;bottom&#8221;][vc_column column_padding=&#8221;no-extra-padding&#8221; column_padding_position=&#8221;all&#8221; background_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; background_hover_color_opacity=&#8221;1&#8243; column_link_target=&#8221;_self&#8221; column_shadow=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_radius=&#8221;none&#8221; width=&#8221;1\/1&#8243; tablet_width_inherit=&#8221;default&#8221; tablet_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; phone_text_alignment=&#8221;default&#8221; column_border_width=&#8221;none&#8221; column_border_style=&#8221;solid&#8221;][vc_column_text]\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-136879 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/getblys.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/best-massage-for-couples-blys-hero.png\" alt=\"A couple lies close together on massage tables, the woman resting with eyes closed in the foreground and the man behind her; a warm, intimate, peaceful scene.\" width=\"1100\" height=\"764\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best massage for couples is usually Swedish, because the pressure adjusts for each person and neither of you has to agree on how hard is hard. Deep tissue, hot stone, Thai and aromatherapy each suit a different kind of pair, though, and the right pick depends on what the two of you actually want from the hour. Here&#8217;s which one suits two people, and why, so you can choose in about five minutes and stop doing the &#8220;I don&#8217;t mind&#8221; dance. If you haven&#8217;t had<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/services\/couples-massage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a couples massage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> before, it helps to know that each of you has your own therapist, so pressure and pace can differ even when the style is the same.<\/span><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Type<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What it feels like<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suits couples who<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Watch out for<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Long, flowing strokes, light to medium pressure<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want an easy default<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not firm enough for strong-pressure fans<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep tissue<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Slower strokes, firmer pressure<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both like it firm<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mismatched pressure preferences<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hot stone<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Warm smooth stones with the massage<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want a special-occasion feel<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Needs more setup, so check availability<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thai<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stretching and pressing, often on a mat<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Like to move and stretch<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clothing and setup differ from an oil massage<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aromatherapy<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Essential oils chosen for scent<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Care about scent<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of you disliking the smell<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_84 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title ez-toc-toggle\" style=\"cursor:pointer\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #100249;color:#100249\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #100249;color:#100249\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#Best_Massage_for_Couples_The_Five_Types_Compared\" >Best Massage for Couples: The Five Types, Compared<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#1_Swedish_the_best_massage_for_couples_who_cant_agree\" >1. Swedish: the best massage for couples who can&#8217;t agree<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#2_Deep_tissue_for_the_firm-pressure_pair\" >2. Deep tissue: for the firm-pressure pair<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#3_Hot_stone_for_the_special_occasion\" >3. Hot stone: for the special occasion<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#4_Thai_for_couples_who_like_to_stretch\" >4. Thai: for couples who like to stretch<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#5_Aromatherapy_for_the_scent-minded\" >5. Aromatherapy: for the scent-minded<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#How_to_Choose_Between_Them\" >How to Choose Between Them<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#If_you_want_different_things\" >If you want different things<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#A_two-minute_scoring_trick\" >A two-minute scoring trick<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#If_its_an_anniversary_or_a_gift\" >If it&#8217;s an anniversary or a gift<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#If_you_really_cant_decide\" >If you really can&#8217;t decide<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#Questions_to_Settle_Before_You_Book\" >Questions to Settle Before You Book<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#What_to_Say_to_Your_Therapists_Word_for_Word\" >What to Say to Your Therapists, Word for Word<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#Plan_the_Rest_of_the_Evening_Around_the_Style\" >Plan the Rest of the Evening Around the Style<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#A_Couples_Massage_at_Home_Without_the_Fuss\" >A Couples Massage at Home, Without the Fuss<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/best-massage-for-couples\/#Arrange_a_Couples_Massage_Without_the_Drive\" >Arrange a Couples Massage Without the Drive<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Best_Massage_for_Couples_The_Five_Types_Compared\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Best Massage for Couples: The Five Types, Compared<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each style has a personality, and a couples massage works best when yours line up. These are the five most-asked-about, with who they suit and why.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Swedish_the_best_massage_for_couples_who_cant_agree\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">1. Swedish: the best massage for couples who can&#8217;t agree<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish is the plain white tee of massages: it goes with everything. It uses long, flowing strokes at a light to medium pressure, and your therapist adjusts as you go. For two people with different tastes that&#8217;s the whole appeal, because each therapist works to their own person&#8217;s preference and there&#8217;s no wrong answer to &#8220;was that too hard?&#8221; If you&#8217;re wondering what the day looks like, there&#8217;s<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/what-happens-couples-massage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a couples massage from start to finish<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the room with two of you: the pace is steady and quiet, so it&#8217;s the easiest style to share. You won&#8217;t have much to watch or hear from the other side of the room, and a bit of low music fills any gaps in conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick it if: it&#8217;s your first couples massage, you disagree about pressure or you want something easy. Skip it if: one of you is a &#8220;harder, please&#8221; type who&#8217;ll feel short-changed.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Deep_tissue_for_the_firm-pressure_pair\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">2. Deep tissue: for the firm-pressure pair<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep tissue uses slower strokes and firmer pressure, and it suits couples where both people like a strong hand. It&#8217;s the style for the person who says &#8220;harder&#8221; like it&#8217;s a hobby. The catch is mismatch: if one of you wants firm and the other wants gentle, you&#8217;ll both enjoy a Swedish more, or you can ask whether each of you can have a different style. For where deep tissue and remedial work overlap, there&#8217;s<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/what-is-remedial-massage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the remedial massage guide<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the room with two of you: you may hear your partner react when a firm spot is found, a sharp breath or a muttered &#8220;ooh&#8221;, and it&#8217;s worth agreeing beforehand that neither of you will comment. It&#8217;s a good deal funnier on the drive home than it is on the table.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick it if: you both like firm pressure and you&#8217;re happy to say when it&#8217;s too much. Better to skip if: one of you is new to massage or nervous about pressure.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Hot_stone_for_the_special_occasion\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">3. Hot stone: for the special occasion<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hot stone uses warm, smooth stones alongside the massage, and it feels like a treat with a bit of ceremony. For two people it suits an anniversary or a celebration, since the warmth adds something an ordinary session doesn&#8217;t. It needs more setup than a standard massage, so ask when you book whether it&#8217;s available for your time and location, and tell your therapists if heat isn&#8217;t your thing. If you&#8217;d like to make a day of it,<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/massage-and-beauty-same-day\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">massage and beauty on the same day<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> is easy to plan.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the room with two of you: expect a little extra setup at the start, so allow a few minutes before the massage begins, and agree on a lighter blanket if one of you runs warm. The stones add some theatre for both of you, so it helps if you&#8217;re both comfortable with that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick it if: you want it to feel like an occasion. Not for you if: warmth isn&#8217;t your thing or you&#8217;re short on time.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_Thai_for_couples_who_like_to_stretch\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">4. Thai: for couples who like to stretch<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thai massage is traditionally stretching and pressing, often on a mat, and it&#8217;s the style for couples who&#8217;d rather move than lie still. It&#8217;s yoga&#8217;s friend who actually helps you into the stretch. The setup and clothing differ from an oil massage, so ask when you book what to wear and what to expect, and use<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/what-to-wear-to-a-couples-massage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the guide to what to wear to a couples massage<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> as the starting point for the standard oil-massage setup.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the room with two of you: stretching takes more floor space than lying on a table, so clear a bigger patch than you think you need. That&#8217;s a lot of limbs to coordinate, so giving each other space is part of the etiquette.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick it if: you both enjoy movement and like the idea of a therapist guiding you through stretches. Give it a miss if: you&#8217;d both rather lie still with oil and quiet.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"5_Aromatherapy_for_the_scent-minded\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">5. Aromatherapy: for the scent-minded<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aromatherapy uses essential oils chosen for their scent, and it suits couples who care about how a room smells. It&#8217;s also the one style where a disagreement about lavender can end a conversation. Agree on a scent before the session, tell your therapists about any scent sensitivities and keep your own perfume to a minimum, because two competing fragrances in one room is a lot.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the room with two of you: scent travels, so whatever&#8217;s chosen fills the whole room for both of you, and there&#8217;s no mixing and matching. If you&#8217;d like different scents, ask whether that&#8217;s possible, or settle on a mild one you both like.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick it if: you both enjoy scent and agree on one. Leave it out if: smell bothers either of you, or one of you thinks lavender is a personality flaw.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_to_Choose_Between_Them\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How to Choose Between Them<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Choosing together comes down to a few simple questions, and this table gives quick answers for the most common pairs.<\/span><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re&#8230;<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The &#8220;harder, please&#8221; pair<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep tissue<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You both like firm<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One firm, one gentle<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each therapist adjusts to their own person<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First-timers<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Easy to adjust as you go<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Marking an anniversary<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hot stone or aromatherapy<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It feels like an occasion<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A pair who stretch or do yoga<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thai<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stretching suits you both<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One nervous, one keen<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish, with a word at the start<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The gentlest way in<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Split on lavender<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish, with no scent<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It avoids the argument<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"If_you_want_different_things\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want different things<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Say so when you book. Many couples choose the same style, but if you&#8217;d like different ones, mention it in your booking notes and ask what&#8217;s possible for your time and location. If you can&#8217;t have different styles, choose the one that suits the more cautious person.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_two-minute_scoring_trick\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A two-minute scoring trick<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you genuinely can&#8217;t agree, give each style a score from one to five, separately and without peeking. Add your scores together and the highest total wins, and a tie goes to Swedish. It sounds silly, but it turns an argument into a small game, and it shows quickly whether one of you cares more than the other.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"If_its_an_anniversary_or_a_gift\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If it&#8217;s an anniversary or a gift<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick the style that feels most like an occasion, and tell your therapists why you&#8217;re booking, so they know it&#8217;s a celebration. If it&#8217;s a surprise, a<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/massage-gift-voucher\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">massage gift voucher<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> lets your partner choose the day, and a note in the card about what to expect (the style, the two therapists, the home setup) takes away the nerves before they arrive.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"If_you_really_cant_decide\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you really can&#8217;t decide<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pick Swedish, then use your booking notes to say what you&#8217;d like: firmer, lighter, quieter or chattier. It&#8217;s the best massage for couples who can&#8217;t agree, since it flexes in whichever direction you need, and you can try a different style next time with a clearer idea of what you like.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Questions_to_Settle_Before_You_Book\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questions to Settle Before You Book<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A few minutes of talking beforehand saves a lot of awkwardness on the day.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pressure: do you both want light, medium or firm, and are you the same?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scent: is there any smell either of you dislikes or can&#8217;t be around?<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chat or quiet: do you want to talk, or stay silent? For the polite way to say it, there&#8217;s<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/blog\/couples-massage-etiquette\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">couples massage etiquette<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Music: pick a playlist, or ask for quiet, before the session starts.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Timing: choose an hour when you won&#8217;t be rushing off afterwards.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Clothing: for an oil massage, keep your underwear on, and ask what&#8217;s different if you&#8217;ve chosen Thai.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_to_Say_to_Your_Therapists_Word_for_Word\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What to Say to Your Therapists, Word for Word<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Short and polite beats long and apologetic. Here are lines you can use as they are, or change to sound like you.<\/span><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Situation<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try saying<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Setting the pressure<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Medium to start, and I&#8217;ll tell you if I&#8217;d like it firmer.&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s too firm<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;That&#8217;s a bit much, could you go lighter?&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Scent<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;No strong scents for us, please.&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">First time<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;It&#8217;s our first couples massage, so please tell us what&#8217;s happening as you go.&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chat or quiet<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;We&#8217;d like to stay quiet, thank you.&#8221; or &#8220;We&#8217;re happy to chat.&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Temperature<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Could we have an extra blanket?&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Wanting different styles<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Is it possible for us to have different styles?&#8221;<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">None of these need an apology, and your therapists would much rather hear a plain request at the start than guess halfway through.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Plan_the_Rest_of_the_Evening_Around_the_Style\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plan the Rest of the Evening Around the Style<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The massage is the main event, but what you do before and after helps<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/services\/couples-massage\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a couples massage at home<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> feel like a whole evening. A few ideas to match each style:<\/span><\/p>\n<table>\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Style<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A good follow-up<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swedish<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A film and a takeaway on the sofa<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deep tissue<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A slow dinner and an early night<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hot stone<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A cosy dinner, with a bath if you have one<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thai<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A gentle walk or tea and a slow stretch<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aromatherapy<\/span><\/td>\n<td><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Open the windows, then dinner<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whichever you choose, leave the hour afterwards free, and put your phones somewhere you won&#8217;t hear them for a while.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Couples_Massage_at_Home_Without_the_Fuss\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Couples Massage at Home, Without the Fuss<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/getblys.com\/us\/services\/couples-massage\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A couples massage booked through Blys<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sends two local massage therapists to your home, so you can get ready in your own bedroom and skip the travel. You choose a time, a local therapist accepts the booking and you&#8217;re only charged once it&#8217;s confirmed. Bookings run from 6 am to midnight, seven days a week, and the therapists are independent business owners who run their own work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you book, add a note about the style you&#8217;d like, any scent sensitivities and whether it&#8217;s your first time, so your therapists arrive prepared. 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