Ah, Valentine’s Day. The one day a year where you either have the best date of your life or spend a lot of time scrolling through Pinterest trying to convince yourself that you can live without a date and still be amazing. But let’s get one thing straight — you don’t need a plus one to have a memorable, feel-good day. Whether you’re happily single or just looking to take a break from the couple-y festivities, this Valentine’s Day is your chance to show yourself some love. Forget the pressure to conform to anyone else’s idea of romance and treat yourself to a day that’s all about you.
Here are five fun and fabulous solo date ideas that’ll have you feeling like the most important person in the room — because you are.
Get Outside: Treat Yourself to a Solo Café Adventure
Who said solo dining isn’t fun? Sure, you might get a few curious glances from other patrons, but that’s just them wishing they had the guts to eat solo in public. Treat yourself to your favorite restaurant or cafe. No waiting for someone else to make up their mind on the order. It’s all about you today. Whether it’s brunch at that cosy spot down the street or a full-on feast at your favorite Italian joint (yes, you deserve the truffle risotto), you’re the boss. Bonus points if you treat yourself to dessert and take a cute picture of it for the ‘gram (because why not show off your fabulous solo date?)
‘Me Time’ Spa Day with Blys—You Deserve It, Seriously
You’ve been working hard, so why not spoil yourself with a spa day without even having to leave your house? With Blys, you can book a massage, beauty or wellness treatment and have a therapist come to your place and work their magic. They’ll bring everything— fresh linens, massage table, and maybe even some of those soothing spa vibes you’ve been craving. All you have to do? Sit back, relax, and let them handle the rest. Self-care, here you come.
Social Media Detox
Let’s be real for a second. Social media is exhausting, especially when everyone seems to be posting about their perfect lives, dates, and insta-worthy moments. So, how about taking a little break from all of that? Pick up that book you’ve been meaning to read, or better yet, binge-watch a movie marathon in your pajamas. No notifications, no FOMO—just pure, uninterrupted “me time.” If you’ve been wanting to dive into that fantasy novel you’ve been eyeing or finish that documentary you’ve been postponing for ages, now is the time. Who needs a date when you’ve got a whole world of entertainment at your fingertips?
Go on a Solo Shopping Spree
Valentine’s Day is all about giving, right? Well, give yourself the gift of a new outfit (or five). You deserve to feel fabulous, so why not pick out something that makes you look and feel like a million bucks? Whether you’re window shopping or going all out on a spree, shopping is the perfect way to show yourself some love. No need for anyone else to approve your choices. If you want that killer leather jacket or sparkly shoes, get ‘em. After all, you’re a total catch, and it’s time to dress the part.
Journaling: Write Your Own Love Story (Spoiler: It’s About You)
We get it. Writing isn’t everyone’s go-to activity for fun, but hear us out—journaling is like a love letter to yourself. It’s a chance to reflect, dream big, and pour your thoughts onto paper. Plus, you get to be your own bestie and hype yourself up with some seriously positive affirmations. Who needs a Valentine when you can write your own love story? It’s not just about the warm, fuzzy feelings (though those are nice, too). Journaling lets you check in with yourself, your goals, and your personal growth. So go ahead—grab a pen and spill the tea. You’ve got a lot to love about you.
This Valentine’s Day, forget the pressure to find a date, wear red, or do anything you’re not vibing with. Embrace the beauty of self-love and make the day a celebration of YOU. Whether you’re pampering yourself with a Blys massage, treating yourself to a solo meal, or getting lost in a good book, there’s no wrong way to spend your day when it’s all about feeling good and loving yourself.
So, go ahead, make this Valentine’s Day one for the books—because you’re worth it.
